Tuesday, November 4, 2014

Six

Our baby girl is now 6 years old!  As I say every year, it definitely does not feel like it has flown by.  I am grateful to have had the chance to stay home with her in her early years, which I think makes the time tick by at about the right speed for me.

I try not to gush too much, but we are so very proud of Erin.  When we think back on the progress that she has made in her short lifetime, we are blown away.  She has gone from being a 3-year-old who could not talk, wasn't potty-trained when other kids were, and was almost totally anti-social to being a 6-year-old who chatters constantly, doesn't give the bathroom situation a second thought, and has many friends who love her.  She is one of the sweetest kids I know, and has never intentionally been mean to anyone.  She is very independent, driven, and caring.  I could go on and on, but Erin exceeds my expectations on a daily basis - we could not be more proud of her, and we are so hopeful for her future.  Oh! She's smart too - she can read Level 2 books (when she wants to) and has an incredible memory.  Her conduct and reading/spelling skills knock her teachers' socks off.  Math is more challenging for her, but she is doing great there too.  For a kid who could barely hold a crayon 2 years ago, her handwriting is right in line with her classmates', and she is able to complete all the worksheets, cutting/pasting, and other assignments that this crazy kindergarten curriculum throws at her.  I know that daily life is not always easy or comfortable for Erin, but her meltdowns and complaints are so rare now compared to years past, which makes me even more amazed and proud of her.

She won't get to the doctor until early December, so we don't have that update yet.  We can, however, give an update on her multifaceted birthday celebration!  Erin was so excited about her birthday this year, so we were more than happy to oblige.  That turned out to mean four celebrations - first, a weekend in Concord from October 10th-12th, where we had a fun visit to a pumpkin patch, playtime at "Ansley's house" (also, Logan and Ben live there with their parents), birthday pizza lunch with Frozen cake, visit to Cole's new house, and the Hound Dog Hustle.  Busy weekend!






















Her second celebration was taking mini cupcakes to her kindergarten class on her birthday, the 23rd.  We also celebrated at home that day, with a special donut and bacon breakfast and her dinner/treat request of spaghetti and Halloween cookies.  Mommy tried really hard to talk her into a nice dinner out, but this tired girl just likes to stay home after her busy day at school.







Her birthday finale was a "small" tea party with her neighbor friends, which I think she really enjoyed.  It was just a snack, pink lemonade, and (Pretty in Pink) cupcakes, then playtime, but that's all that Erin wants.  Give this girl some food and turn her loose, and she's happy.  I was happy to not have to come up with any elaborate games or entertainment!







So, that's our Erin.  What else - she has been off of the melatonin for several months now and is sleeping like a champ - from 8pm-6am even on weekends, but I'll take that any day of the week.  We do keep some on hand for the occasional rough night.  Now that she can tell time, I think when she does wake up, she just goes right back to sleep instead of having a party in her bedroom like before.  She is not taking any iron/fish oil/B6/magnesium now.  We just weren't seeing any difference and felt bad subjecting her to the bad tastes.  She continues to go to occupational therapy one hour a week after school, and that seems to be helping her a lot with working on sensory needs, as well as fine motor skills.  We are waiting patiently for our Daisy Girl Scout troop to get started, so we can hang out with some friends outside of school.  She also wants to try a regular dance class, but I'm not sure that she or I are ready for 3 activities!  We may give it a try after the holidays.  Otherwise, we spend a lot of time playing with neighbor friends, pretending school, reading, listening to music, walking, and jumping on the trampoline.  Erin is our down-to-earth child, and is so sweet and happy.  We love her so much!

October!


October was a busy month, as it always is, with Erin being tracked out of school for the first 3 weeks, her big birthday, and Halloween.  I am also behind on giving a 6-year update on our big girl, but that will be next!  We started out with a bang by getting the kids' flu shots on the 2nd.  This would not normally be notable, but for us it was due to the fact that nobody cried.  First time ever that we have gotten through vaccinations without tears!  Anna may have sniffled a little, but quickly recovered...no holding screaming kids down, no sweat or tears on my part!  We are all growing up.  We 3 ladies had a fun afternoon at Phillips Farm on the 3rd, which has become an annual tradition for us.  It's a really fun place in Morrisville/Cary with lots of activities for the kids, hayride, and pumpkin patch.  



We had a busy morning on the 4th with our family pictures at Bond Park (I haven't been there in about 10 years!), then Anna's "away" soccer game across the street at St. Michael's.  

We also had a busy day on Sunday with Atrium class, then I got to go to Concord for Dale and Maria's baby shower while Bob and the kids (and neighbor friend Laney) went to Erin's dance class and the parish picnic.  Lots of fun, and a beautiful day!

Erin and I went to Anna's preschool on the 6th to help with a painting project, which triggered an ongoing rant by Erin regarding going back to preschool.  I think she was upset that she never got to go there, or else she was just jealous of all the fun they were having while she is working so hard in kindergarten!  

House news - we got our water heaters replaced on the 7th.  Our neighbors had theirs leak and cause a great deal of damage over the summer, so we thought it was about time to have ours replaced since they're 10-11 years old.  We went from two 40-gallon tanks to one 50-gallon tank.  He said it probably won't be enough to fill the whirlpool tub, but considering we haven't used that in 4 years, we probably won't miss it.  

We had a great time in Concord over the 10th-12th for Erin's birthday celebration, trip to the pumpkin patch, and Hound Dog Hustle!  We always have such a great time with everyone there. 



 
Erin and I went to Defy Gravity on the 17th for her last morning of track-out, and we both really enjoyed it.  We went to the state fair on the 17th and had a great time.  Erin finally succeeded in talking us into painting her room on the 18th (well, Bob) while we ladies went to Erin's pre-K teacher's baby's first birthday party.  We now have dueling electric pink bedrooms!  

Erin went back to school on the 20th with little protest, thankfully.  It's so nice that she enjoys school this year and doesn't complain constantly about going!  I think she really enjoys being with kids her age who are much more verbal and interactive.  She is learning a lot and having fun!  We had a super fun day on the 24th with Erin's class field trip to the Stevens Nature Center/Hemlock Bluffs in the morning, bowling for Caroline's birthday in the afternoon, then movie night at our neighbors' house.  Whew!  We had a few of Erin's little neighbor friends over on the 25th for tea, which she enjoyed quite a bit.  We also had a great visit with Grandma F. on the 26th!

The week of the 27th, we got prepped for the big day on Friday...Anna's class had silly hat day/fall harvest party, so we made Rice Krispie treat pumpkins to send in.  Erin's class had book character day, so Erin got to wear her beautiful tutu from Grandma and Grandpa A. and bring in a book that we conveniently had about a ballerina.  Then, of course, was the big night out trick-or-treating.  We had a pizza party with lots of neighbor friends, then the kids went out.  They had a great time, but Anna enjoyed handing out candy just as much!  Our kitty cat ballerina and (human) ballerina had a great time!  Stay tuned for our big birthday update!